Swipe and communicate for you...as you!

It's true, I swipe and communicate on the dating apps for you...as you!  Think of me as your dating fairy godmother,  I do all of the "work" and you show up for the date.


Choosing the right app(s)

Each app is different and it seems like every week there's a new one.  I keep track of them⏤AND WHO'S ON THEM!⏤so you don't have to.  Let my expertise help you select the app(s) with the appropriate target audience and the greatest chance for your success.

Focusing your search

Most people date never bothering to consider what they want, let alone who is actually good for them.  I will work with you to determine what it is you're really looking for in a partner and then we'll refine the search accordingly.

We've all made mistakes while dating. What's important is identifying them going forward.  This is essential in order to establish adaptive dating behaviors.


Perfecting your profile

Self-promotion can be hard and writing about yourself can be overwhelming.  We'll review the profile you have or collaborate on a new one to ensure that you're putting your best foot forward.

First impressions count!  I'll tell you how many pictures you need and what they should look like, helping you highlight your best features while being honest about what isn't working (yes, I'll actually tell you that the photo of your dog licking your face isn't attractive).



Having a second set of eyes present can make all the difference; I'm your second set of eyes.  I'll help you prepare for dates⏤where and when to meet, establish safe and engaging subjects to talk about, as well as how to gracefully exit the date.

I'll be available throughout the process supporting you into a healthy, happy, and committed relationship: crafting/editing texts during a challenging exchange as well as advising on when to respond, overseeing the process looking for red flags, figuring out what's not working and inserting adaptive behavior in its place, strengthening and building boundaries AND impulse control where necessary, alerting you when poor decisions are about to be exercised, and post date strategizing.