You have the best intentions but what you've been doing just isn't working for whatever reason.  Maybe you don't have the time for swiping and messaging because graduate school or building a career is monopolizing your life. Perhaps one day you woke up and realized, when did all of my friends get married...and have kids?  Or maybe your marriage didn't work out, and you know it's time to get back out there but you're too busy managing life, work, and your family to use the dating apps.   Or maybe your spouse passed away, and your children are begging you to meet someone because they want you to be happy. Whatever stage of life or situation you're in, this is the right time to begin your search for a healthy, happy, and committed relationship